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Thursday, January 17th, 2013
From loving it, to hating it & then finding a new love. [Or just figuring out who I am]

I’ve been sucked into the wormhole, known as finding out your family tree and history. I’ve been trying to figure out when my ancestors came over on the boat to America. Which I have yet to figure out. The furthest I’ve gotten to the boat is knowing that my great-great-great-great (Yes, x’s 4!) grandparents were born in Virginia, New Jersey & Ohio, which would be around the year 1817-ish. But I still have yet to figure out their names, or if their parents were born in the US as well, or came over on the boat. Anyways, during this search, home stuff came into my brain (of course!) and I started thinking about how over the years my style, or likes have changed. When I was 13, I wanted to move to New York City and live in an apartment, alone. My how that has changed over the years. Now I want a charming house in the woods, with a husband, kids, a dog and a bunch of outdoor cats. And a garden filled with wildflowers and vegetables. I’m going to call this, figuring out who I really am and what I really want.

I’ve pulled together a few things that have changed in my taste over the years to share with you guys, and maybe it’ll make you think back to what you thought you wanted, and laugh. The first thing that I realized was how much my color taste has changed. I remember when I was really young, I wanted a midnight blue themed winter wedding. I loved dark blues, blacks, greys and whites. Now I love all colors associated with wildflowers, especially oranges, corals (I can’t believe I love coral), greens and whites. Even pinks and purples. I’m shocked. I use to be such a tomboy, and now I love girly colors. What happened? My favorite color is still light grey though. Always.

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This will probably further explain my color taste change. I use to love white roses, but overtime it has changed to wildflowers. I think this change happened, because as I get older, memories of my Nanny and Paw Paw mean way more to me than they did when I was a child. I remember my Paw Paw having a wildflower garden, that I didn’t understand when I was young, but now every-time I think about wildflowers, it makes me smile and remind me of my grandparents.

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And then there comes the change with scenery. I don’t know what I was thinking when I was younger about moving to the city. I hate the city. I hate being surrounded by a million people, and the hussle and bussle. It was probably because at the time, I hated where I lived, but as I got older, I learned to appreciate that place, and appreciate the farm land. Plus, my love of camping exploded when I was 17. I just love being outdoors, and would never want to feel cooped up in my house like I do in the apartments we’ve had.

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This one really surprises me. I’ve wanted white trim for as long as I can remember. Growing up our house had/has stain wood trim, and I never loved it. Travis and I would even argue about painting trim white, or staining it. I was always team white, he was team stain. Well now I’m waiving the white flag! Stained and natural wood trim is still growing on me, but I think that’s what we’ll end up with. I don’t see myself painting trim white, even though it’s so crisp looking, and makes a room so much brighter. I think I’d rather knock out a hole in the wall, stick a window in it for more light, and keep the wood trim.

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I can’t believe I’m typing this one. Yellow, oh yellow… I’ve always had a hatred for yellow, but lately it’s been creeping into the home decor section of my brain. Just little bits of yellow, but it’s still there. I can’t believe it, I no longer hate yellow. I blame those wildflowers.

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One of the most recent changes, is color of furniture. From I’d say 2007 until 2010, I was buying black furniture. I hated natural wood colored furniture at the type. I thought it look old and ugly. Once we moved into our first apartment, that’s when I started hating all of the black. I wanted to bring the outdoors inside, with natural wood furniture. I ended up selling a bunch of black furniture pieces then, but we still have quite a few left in our apartment: coffee table, end table, bookcase and a cabinet. All of these items will be getting replaced when we buy a house. (By the way, I really, really want that dresser in the picture below! — I also just realized that I spelled furniture wrong below, oops. I have Friday on the brain I guess!)

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What has changed taste and color wise for you? Has your taste remained the same or have you done a complete 180? Also, have you ever researched your family history? How far did you get and did you trace it back to “the boat”?!


Posted on May 25, 2013 - 15 comments
 Filed Under: Goals & Dreams, Inspiration

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  1. annabelvita said:
    January 17, 2013 at 11:11 am

    I loved this post! My style has always been about loving old stuff but it’s definitely always evolving!

    I’m going to email you about family history.

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    Melanie @ Mailbox Journey said:
    January 17th, 2013 at 11:11 am

    Yay! I’m obsessed with this family history stuff at the moment! Can’t wait to read it.

  2. Ashley said:
    January 17, 2013 at 11:11 am

    I really liked this post, Melanie!

    My decorating taste has definitely changed, but I have always, always, always wanted to live on a farm. That’s never changed, I just never thought it would ever be a reality.

    I know a bit about my family history, but only back to great-great grandparents, I think. I’m a fourth generation Canadian!

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  3. Christine @ Casa-de-Christine said:
    January 17, 2013 at 11:11 am

    Interesting post! I’ve definitely changed tastes a ton too. I too used to hate yellow and blues… now they are two of my favourite colours! It’s funny how things change like that. I am kind of over the super dark furniture trend but we too have a few darker pieces.

    I love the wildflower colours and themes you seem to have and can’t wait to see what you put together for your wedding! And see what you start doing once you have that home of your- a cottage in the woods with a husband, kids and a dog sounds perfect!!

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  4. Gabbi said:
    January 17, 2013 at 12:12 pm

    My tastes have definitely changed over the years…but where I wanted to live hasn’t. I also used to be CONVINCED I wanted a 2 story colonial. Now, I wouldn’t trade my ranch for anything!

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  5. Ash @ HumberHomeProject said:
    January 17, 2013 at 9:21 pm

    I can’t believe you’ve traced your family back so far! That is crazy!!

    This was really fun to read, and I can definitely relate to a lot of them. I think some of the choices are based on trends, too. Like, I used to love dark furniture, and we actually have quite a bit from our apartment, too – but now I’m favoring lighter, more natural colors.

    I can’t wait until you guys get a house so we can start seeing these new ideas put in place! :D

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  6. Whitney @ drab to fab said:
    January 17, 2013 at 9:21 pm

    Family ancestry is really neat to learn about! Go you for digging deep!

    I feel like my style has changed a lot too! I’m not sure if it’s due to Pinterest or what, but I like so many different styles so it’s hard for me to figure out what my favorite is! Very cool post!

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  7. Melissa D said:
    January 17, 2013 at 10:22 pm

    I dont think I will ever stop loving white trim!! However, I should add that my sister recently moved into a house with so much character, including real wood paneling and trim and I am IN LOVE with it!! Also, I think Im with ya on the black furniture thing.. my problem is that all of our apartment is filled with black/dark furniture lol but I’m sure that will change once we get a house one day!

    This was a cool post by the way! :)

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  8. John @ Our Home from Scratch said:
    January 18, 2013 at 3:15 pm

    It’s nice to know where you come from… can help with where you’re going. Almost all of my family arrive here in the 20th century. My mom’s dad was the youngest of 13 and most of his siblings were born in Galway, Ireland. My dad’s dad was born here then moved back to Poland for a while. Fun stuff.

    I never really gave changing styles much thought, but you’re right. I’m in the same boat as you for most of these, although I still prefer painted trim over bare wood. :)

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  9. Ashley from The Kitchen-Sink Chronicles said:
    January 20, 2013 at 7:19 pm

    I prefer black or white furniture over woods. I used to love bright colors but now I’m leaning towards dark blues and grays.

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  10. Bekah said:
    January 21, 2013 at 10:10 am

    Oh man – its constantly evolving here too. I am currently loving all things neutral. We are planning a move (actually to REALLY close to Harrisburg..so..) and am so excited to start fresh and neutral with all the rooms and such. I havent blogged about the move yet..it isnt til June!

    In a lot of ways my style has stayed the same though – for instance I think that if were to plan our wedding again…it would still be almost the same as it was! Except maybe my hairdresser would have shown up…

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    Melanie @ Mailbox Journey said:
    January 21st, 2013 at 7:19 pm

    Close to HBG!? That’s awesome!

  11. Kelly @ Corner of Main said:
    January 22, 2013 at 2:14 pm

    It’s funny that you bring this up as I was seriously just thinking about all this recently. I remember when I was about 21 I loved everything shabby chic, and I am more or less talked my boyfriend at the time to buy all this country-ish furniture for his new townhouse (and he did it…why did I break up with him? lol). A few years later I moved to the city and loved everything industrial. I lived in an old converted factory and decorated it with modern sleek things. Now I’m a bit older and I definitely don’t like anything modern. Who knows what’s in store in 10 more years ;)

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  12. Erika @ Our Cozy Cubyhole said:
    January 23, 2013 at 4:16 pm

    Great post! My tastes have changed a lot too over the years.

    P.S. I LOVE all of that family history and geneology stuff! SO fascinating! :)

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  13. Amy@BuffaloRoam said:
    January 25, 2013 at 11:11 am

    Isn’t it funny how tastes are constantly evolving? I know I’ve run the gamut!

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